Pregnant Women Threatened by Partners

27 Jun

Saudi Arabian Woman Feels Threatened by Man Who Raped Her
I currently live saudi Arabia I was raped very horrible by an acquaintance and got pregnant , this is what he wanted for me to suffer and will kill me and cut open stomach to prove point life now is very scary please help I am very afraid

Age: 16
Current Country: saudi arabia
Country Born In: germany
Ethnic Background: Middle Eastern/Arab
Religion: Affiliated with a religious group that is not listed above
Marital Status: Widowed
Relationship Status: It's Complicated!
Children: 0
Consensual Sex?: No it was not consensual
Were You Pressured to Have Sex Through Threats or Intimidation?: No
At the Time of Conception Were You Drugged Against Your Will?: I'm not sure
Beaten or Subject to Physical Violence?: Yes
Relationship to Man Who Got You Pregnant: He was an aquaintance
Were you, by your own choice, under the influence of drugs or alcohol at the time of conception?: No
Did you use ANY form of birth control? If so, which method(s) did you use?: I did not use birth control
Does the man who got you pregnant support your decision to have a miscarriage?: He does not/would not care what I do
Does anyone know that you are pregnant?: No
Does anyone know that you are considering aborting the pregnancy?: No
What personal consequences might you face if you are found to be pregnant?: Financial hardship. I simply can not afford to have a
child at this point in my life., Disowned by family (forced to leave home or not allowed to return), Beating from the man who got me pregnant,
Death at the hands of the man who got me pregnant
Is medical or surgical abortion LEGAL where you live?: I don't know
Have you had a medical or surgical abortion in the past?: No

 Woman Threatened by Abusive Ex-Husband
I am in a terrible controlling, verbally, emotionally abusive relationship with the father of my children. We have been together for 8 years and have two beautiful boys. Our whole relationship has been nothing but cheating and lies and i stayed for my boys and because I was scared. I managed to leave him and things became 10 times worse. Durning this time I met and fell in love with someone else. Then became more abusive and started threatening me that if I did not come back and be a family with him and our children he would kill me. I am now with him again and am beyond not happy with my life. The man that I met an fell in love with has been the only happiness that I have along with my children. Now I am 9 weeks pregnant with the love of my life's baby but if my children's father finds out it will be just a disaster as I am scared of him and what he might do.

  • Age: 29
  • Current Country: Canada
  • Country Born In: Canada
  • Ethnic Background: Black/African/African American
  • Religion: Christian
  • Marital Status: Single (never married)
  • Relationship Status: It's Complicated!
  • Children: 2
  • Consensual Sex?: Yes it was consensual
  • Relationship to Man Who Got You Pregnant: He is my boyfriend
  • Were you, by your own choice, under the influence of drugs or alcohol at the time of conception?: No
  • Did you use ANY form of birth control? If so, which method(s) did you use?: Condom (male)
  • Does the man who got you pregnant support your decision to have a miscarriage?: He knows about the pregnancy but does not know I want to have an abortion
  • Does anyone know that you are pregnant?: Yes
  • Does anyone know that you are considering aborting the pregnancy?: Yes
  • What personal consequences might you face if you are found to be pregnant?: Financial hardship. I simply can not afford to have a child at this point in my life., Husband/boyfriend will leave me because the child is not theirs, Beating or death by the first two children's father
  • What consequences might you face if you are discovered trying to end your pregnancy?: Husband/boyfriend will leave me if he found out, Beating from the man who got me pregnant if he found out
  • Is medical or surgical abortion LEGAL where you live?: Yes
  • Have you had a medical or surgical abortion in the past?: Yes
  • Please tell us about your previous experience with medical or surgical abortion: After my first son I had an abortion and just the thought of what I was doing along with the horrible pain of them scraping the walls I cannot bring myself to lay down on that bed again and have them do that to me first I would rather induce a miscarriage/abortion at home

Woman Threatened by Controlling Ex-Boyfriend
I was in a relationship with a controlling guy who claimed he was severely in love with me. One day we were in his car going to get something to eat and instead of taking me back to the school, he turned off into an empty parking lot. Prior to this I told him I wasn't a virgin, but I practicing abstinence and wanted to wait until I was married. He put himself on top of me I told him no I saw him take out a condom, he inserted himself inside of me.I told him to stop and kept hitting him, he stopped and I told him I was going to walk back to campus. I can't afford a child right now, and I am really afraid of this guy due to his prior actions and can image what adding a child would be like into my life for him. He sends me crazy messages all the time and texts me random and crazy stuff. If my mom found out I'm pregnant, she would make me leave my last semester of school and disown me alone with the rest of my family.

  • Age: 22
  • Current Country: United States
  • Country Born In: United States
  • State Born In: Georgia
  • Ethnic Background: Black/African/African American
  • Religion: Christian
  • Marital Status: Single (never married)
  • Relationship Status: Single (not dating)
  • Children: 0
  • Consensual Sex?: No it was not consensual
  • Were You Pressured to Have Sex Through Threats or Intimidation?: Yes
  • Relationship to Man Who Got You Pregnant: He is an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband
  • Were you, by your own choice, under the influence of drugs or alcohol at the time of conception?: No
  • Did you use ANY form of birth control? If so, which method(s) did you use?: Condom (male)
  • Does the man who got you pregnant support your decision to have a miscarriage?: He does not know about the pregnancy
  • Does anyone know that you are pregnant?: No
  • Does anyone know that you are considering aborting the pregnancy?: No
  • What personal consequences might you face if you are found to be pregnant?: Financial hardship. I simply can not afford to have a child at this point in my life., Forced to leave school, Disowned by family (forced to leave home or not allowed to return)
  • What consequences might you face if you are discovered trying to end your pregnancy?: Disowned by family if they found out (forced to leave home or not allowed to return)
  • Is medical or surgical abortion LEGAL where you live?: Yes
  • What is the approximate cost, in US dollars, of a surgical abortion where you live?: 585
  • Have you had a medical or surgical abortion in the past?: No